do i have anxiety

The truth is that these two experiences often overlap. Anxiety can lead to burnout. Burnout can make anxiety worse. Sometimes they look identical on the surface, which can make it difficult to understand what you need.

The good news is that both anxiety and burnout are treatable. With the right tools and support, you can rebuild balance, regain energy, and feel more like yourself again.

This guide will help you understand the difference between anxiety and burnout, the signs of each, and how therapy can help you move forward.


What Is Anxiety?

Anxiety is a natural stress response that becomes overwhelming when it is constant, intrusive, or out of proportion to the situation. It often shows up in the body as physical tension and in the mind as racing thoughts.

Common signs you may be experiencing anxiety include:

  • Persistent worry or fear

  • Overthinking or expecting the worst

  • Feeling tense, restless, or on edge

  • Trouble concentrating

  • Difficulty sleeping

  • Physical symptoms like chest tightness, stomach discomfort, or headaches

  • Feeling overstimulated by noise, crowds, or responsibilities

  • Avoiding situations that feel overwhelming

Anxiety tends to be future oriented, focused on what might happen, what could go wrong, or how you might cope.


What Is Burnout?

Burnout is emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion that develops after long periods of stress with too little rest or support. It is particularly common among teachers, healthcare workers, students, parents, and professionals in high-pressure roles.

Common signs you may be experiencing burnout include:

  • Constant fatigue, even after rest

  • Feeling numb, detached, or disconnected

  • Low motivation

  • Trouble starting tasks

  • Feeling drained by responsibilities that used to feel manageable

  • Irritability or emotional sensitivity

  • Feeling ineffective or stuck

  • Trouble concentrating or remembering things

  • Withdrawing from others

  • Dreading work or daily responsibilities

Burnout is not a lack of strength. It is your body telling you it cannot continue at its current pace.


Anxiety vs. Burnout: How to Tell the Difference

Both conditions share similar symptoms, but they have key differences.

1. Emotional Patterns

Anxiety:

  • Heightened emotions

  • Worry

  • Fear

  • Overthinking

Burnout:

  • Emotional numbness

  • Detachment

  • Loss of motivation

  • Feeling empty or drained


2. Physical Symptoms

Anxiety:

  • Racing heart

  • Restlessness

  • Muscle tension

  • Stomach discomfort

  • Trouble sleeping

Burnout:

  • Full body fatigue

  • Heavy limbs

  • Low energy

  • Frequent headaches

  • Difficulty waking up


3. Thinking Patterns

Anxiety:
“I need to do more.”
“What if I fail?”
“What if things go wrong?”

Burnout:
“I cannot do this anymore.”
“Nothing matters.”
“I have nothing left to give.”


4. Trigger Patterns

Anxiety is often triggered by:

  • Pressure

  • Perceived danger

  • Fear of letting people down

  • Uncertainty

Burnout is often triggered by:

  • Long-term stress

  • Lack of support

  • Overwork

  • Emotional strain

  • Systemic pressures


5. Motivation

Anxiety:
You have energy, but it is frantic or scattered.

Burnout:
You have no energy, even if you want to care.


6. Relationship to Rest

This is one of the most helpful clues.

Anxiety:
Rest is difficult. Your mind stays active even when you stop.

Burnout:
Rest does not help. You wake up tired and stay tired.


Can You Have Both? Absolutely

Many people experience a combination of both anxiety and burnout, especially when juggling multiple responsibilities.
For example:

  • Anxiety keeps you overworking.

  • Overworking leads to burnout.

  • Burnout makes anxiety worse.

Therapy can help you untangle these patterns and understand what your mind and body are telling you.


How CBT Can Help With Anxiety and Burnout

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) helps you understand how your thoughts, behaviours, and emotions affect one another. It can help you:

  • Identify unhelpful thinking patterns

  • Reduce overthinking

  • Break tasks into manageable steps

  • Rebuild motivation

  • Set realistic expectations

  • Develop healthier coping strategies

CBT is especially effective for anxiety, burnout, and depression.


How DBT Helps When Emotions Feel Overwhelming

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) offers grounding and emotional regulation skills that are useful for both anxiety and burnout.

Helpful DBT tools include:

1. Grounding and mindfulness

To reduce spiraling thoughts and return to the present.

2. Opposite Action

To gently move toward tasks you have been avoiding due to burnout or fear.

3. Distress tolerance

To manage difficult emotions without becoming overwhelmed.

4. Self compassion skills

To challenge harsh self-criticism that often appears with anxiety and burnout.

DBT supports emotional steadiness and reduces reactivity.


Mindfulness for Clarity and Balance

Mindfulness is not about clearing your mind. It is about noticing your experience without judgment. This helps you:

  • Recognize early signs of burnout

  • Slow down anxious thoughts

  • Create space between stimulus and reaction

  • Set boundaries

  • Reconnect with your needs

Mindfulness helps both anxiety and burnout feel more manageable.


Behavioural Activation for Burnout

Behavioural Activation is one of the most effective depression and burnout treatments. It focuses on small, meaningful actions that rebuild energy and motivation.

Try:

  • Getting fresh air

  • Doing light movement

  • Completing small tasks

  • Connecting with someone safe

  • Re-engaging in one enjoyable activity

  • Setting limits that protect your energy

Small steps help your nervous system shift out of shutdown.


Everyday Supports That Help Both Anxiety and Burnout

  • Keep a consistent sleep routine

  • Eat meals at regular times

  • Take short breaks through the day

  • Limit multitasking

  • Reduce alcohol and substance use

  • Create predictable daily structure

  • Reduce commitments where possible

  • Give yourself permission to rest

These small habits create stability, especially during stressful seasons.


When to Reach Out for Support

If you are feeling chronically overwhelmed, exhausted, anxious, numb, or unable to keep up with daily responsibilities, therapy can help.

It is especially important to reach out if you are experiencing:

  • Persistent worry

  • Emotional shutdown

  • Irritability

  • Loss of interest

  • Sleep disruption

  • Panic symptoms

  • Difficulty functioning

  • Increased reliance on substances

  • Feeling disconnected from yourself

Support is available, and you deserve care.


Taking the Next Step

Whether you are experiencing anxiety, burnout, or a mix of both, you do not have to navigate this alone. With the right support, it is possible to rebuild balance, restore energy, and reconnect with what matters most to you.

At Tiny Therapy Collective, our therapists offer compassionate, evidence-based support using CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and strengths-based care. We help clients understand their symptoms and build a personalized plan for healing.

Book a free 15 minute consultation to get matched with a therapist who can help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

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