Living with ongoing worry can be exhausting.

Many people in Burlington notice their minds staying busy even when life is calm. You might catch yourself preparing for every possible outcome, feeling tense for reasons you cannot explain, or trying to push anxiety away only to have it grow stronger.

If this sounds familiar, you are not failing. These patterns are often learned, protective responses that can soften with the right support.

Therapy offers a space to understand what your worry is trying to do for you and to build skills that help you feel more grounded, steady, and in control.

What Anxiety and Chronic Worry Actually Is

Anxiety becomes overwhelming when the mind stays on high alert and predicts threats even when nothing dangerous is happening. Many people describe it as a constant hum of tension, a sense of needing to stay prepared, or thoughts that feel hard to slow down.

It is not a personality flaw or a lack of strength. It is a nervous system response that has learned to work overtime.

Common Signs and Symptoms

  • Difficulty relaxing or “turning off” the mind

  • Trouble concentrating or staying present

  • Muscle tension, headaches, or stomach discomfort

  • Restlessness or irritability

  • Sleep disturbances

  • Feeling easily overwhelmed by daily responsibilities

  • Replaying conversations or imagining worst-case scenarios

  • Avoiding situations that trigger worry

  • Feeling “on edge” without knowing why

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Why This Happens

Nervous system patterns

For many people, anxiety begins with a nervous system that reacts quickly to stress. Past experiences, chronic pressure, or long-term caregiving roles can teach the body to stay in a heightened state of alert. This can make everyday challenges feel bigger than they are and can make calm moments feel unfamiliar.

Emotional contributors

Anxiety often builds when emotions are held in, dismissed, or not fully understood. Many people who experience chronic worry have learned to stay strong for others, minimize their own needs, or avoid showing distress. Over time, this can increase internal pressure.

Cognitive patterns

Thought habits such as predicting danger, assuming the worst, or trying to control every detail can reinforce anxiety. These patterns are common and learned, not chosen, and can be reshaped with practice.

Environmental stressors

Workload, financial pressure, relationship changes, health concerns, or parenting responsibilities can all impact anxiety. Burlington’s fast-paced and highly connected community can add demands that make it harder to slow down.

Neurodivergence (when relevant)

People with ADHD or other forms of neurodivergence may experience faster thoughts, emotional intensity, or difficulty shifting attention, which can increase anxiety.

Trauma history (when relevant)

If past experiences taught your mind and body to stay alert, anxiety may appear as a protective response. Therapy can help you approach these patterns with compassion instead of judgment.

How Anxiety Affects Daily Life

Anxiety can influence nearly every part of a person’s day. You may find yourself avoiding opportunities, second-guessing decisions, or feeling disconnected from the things you used to enjoy. Relationships may feel strained when worry leads to withdrawal or irritability. Work or school can feel harder when concentration and motivation drop. Physical health may be impacted by long-term tension and disrupted sleep.

Many people notice that anxiety becomes a cycle: the more they worry, the more they try to control; the more they try to control, the more overwhelmed they feel. This can leave you feeling stuck, drained, or unsure where to begin.

You deserve support that helps you break this cycle and reconnect with a steadier sense of self.

How Therapy Helps

Therapy provides tools, understanding, and gentle guidance to help you relate to anxiety differently. At Tiny Therapy Collective, our approach is warm, compassionate, and grounded in evidence-based strategies.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

CBT helps you identify unhelpful thought patterns, understand how they influence your emotions and behaviours, and build new, supportive ways of thinking. Many people find CBT empowering because it offers practical skills they can use right away.

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)

DBT supports emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and mindfulness. These skills help you manage intense worry, respond more calmly to stress, and feel more grounded in the present moment.

Mindfulness-based strategies

Mindfulness teaches you to observe thoughts without getting pulled into them. This can reduce rumination, quiet the mind, and help you feel more connected to your body and surroundings.

Behavioural activation

For those whose anxiety is paired with low motivation or avoidance, behavioural activation helps you re-engage with meaningful activities and rebuild confidence step by step.

Strengths-based and trauma-informed approaches

Our therapists honour your lived experience and work at your pace. We focus on your strengths, your resilience, and the parts of you that have helped you cope until now. Therapy is not about pushing you. It is about creating safety, insight, and skill-building so you can feel more capable and less overwhelmed.

Everyday Strategies You Can Try

  • Try slow, steady breathing to help signal safety to your nervous system

  • Take short breaks to reset instead of pushing through exhaustion

  • Notice when you are predicting the worst and gently challenge the thought

  • Break overwhelming tasks into smaller steps

  • Spend time in nature or green spaces around Burlington

  • Limit information overload when possible

  • Practice grounding exercises such as naming what you see, hear, and feel

These strategies are not meant to replace therapy but can offer moments of relief.

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When to Consider Therapy

Therapy may be helpful if:

  • Worry is interfering with work, school, or relationships

  • You feel overwhelmed more often than calm

  • You experience physical symptoms of stress

  • You avoid situations because of fear or uncertainty

  • You want support building new skills and coping strategies

  • You are ready to understand yourself more deeply and make meaningful change

You deserve care that supports your well-being and helps you feel more in control of your life.

Meet TTC Therapists Who Can Help

Megan Appleton, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), offers warm, grounding, and collaborative support for anxiety, overwhelm, and emotional stress.

Megan integrates evidence-based approaches such as CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and strengths-based approaches to help you understand your patterns, build coping skills, and develop more confidence in daily life.

Working with Megan means having a compassionate partner in your healing who is committed to helping you feel calmer, clearer, and more supported.

Ready to Get Started?

If anxiety has been taking up too much space in your life, support is available.
You can book a free 15-minute consultation to see whether therapy feels like a good fit.

We are here to help you move toward a steadier, more grounded way of living.

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